Sick Bugs

My little bug has been sick for most of the week. Nothing major...just a little runny/stuffy nose and a minor cough and no energy, but this is how we've spent the majority of our week. Especially once I got the same sick bug! Luckily we are both starting to feel much better (although Brychan's bug is hanging on a little longer than mine).

Unrelated story: While waiting for Brychan's glasses to get here, we have been working on strengthening his right eye. We do this by covering the left one (which he HATES) and leaving the right one uncovered so he's forced to use it. The only way we've found to keep him happy about this exercise is to have one person cover the eye while another person blows bubbles. If we do this, he'll hang out with one eye for 30 minutes or so. And he knows if he wants to blow bubbles, he has to have his eye covered, which he is starting to do willingly all by himself. The other day I noticed his right eye was totally crossed while he was watching television, so I tried setting him in my lap while I covered his left eye. He adamently shook his head and said "bubbles mommy!". So much for sneaking anything past him! Evidently he's going to make Mommy follow the same rules I make him follow!

Charitable contribution program

Recently, I started a charitable contribution program with my business. It works like this: If you, or someone you know is wanting to buy or sell a home… ANYWHERE… let me do the legwork and find the right real estate professional that will best represent your interests … that agent will normally pay a referral fee for my assistance. When that happens, I will donate 25% of the net referral fee that I receive to the charity that you designate. Best of all, it's a free service to you … and you help make a difference for a worthwhile charity in the process.

You can really help me out, and the charities that benefit, by posting a link of my website on your blog, or just letting people you know that I would be happy to help them find a realtor to meet their needs.

DStander.yourkwagent.com

Thank you,
Dave

Seriously???

Somebody is really looking out for us...that's all I can say. For the last 8 months we have been paying for our health insurance out of pocket. No biggie. I sent a check for October's premium the first week of the month and had noticed that it still had not cleared our bank. So I sent an email asking if they needed me to send another check, and their response was, "No, actually, we noticed that you have overpaid and are completely paid through December of 2009, we are sending October's check back".

WHAT?!?! How does that happen??? I know that I never once paid a single penny over what our monthly bill was. I'm not going to push the issue (obviously) but tithing and fast offerings pay off. Repeatedly. We have seen blessings just like this every single month (sometimes more than once) for the last 8 months. It's crazy. I'm extremely grateful, my faith has been repeatedly bolstered and yet I'm a little afraid for the other shoe to drop. It seems like that for every difficult thing we have to face this year (and there have been plenty), we get 5 blessings in it's place. It doesn't seem fair that we are being SO tremendously blessed!!

And a side note: we have our 36 week baby appointment tomorrow. At my 36 week appointment with Brychan, I was dilated to at least a 1. Not much, I know, but at least it was something considering I hadn't had any contractions. With all the contractions I've been having the last few days (yes, even painful ones!) I am hoping the doctor tells me tomorrow that I am past a 1. We are scheduled to be induced on December 1st. At this point, I wouldn't be upset if this little boy decided to come early. We'll keep you posted!

A Boy and His Dogs

Biggs, Brychan and Brutus - a frequent sight at our house.

Brutus isn't actually our dog, he's my sister's. However, he spends a fair amount of time over here and Brychan loves him. I'm not sure if Brychan realizes that Brutus really isn't his dog or not.

Our Latest

Being a Mom is hard. There's no question about that. However, I had no idea just how hard it was until this last week when we realized Brychan had a problem with his eyes. Long story short, he has the begining stages of lazy eye due to extreme farsightedness. Because we caught it so early, it only happens occasionally. Most of the time you'd never notice, and sometimes he goes for days without the eye drifting.

We've seen the pediatrician and the pediatric opthamologist. His opthamologist said it was great that we caught it so soon and that with glasses, the eye drifting should completely stop. If need be we will also do some patching therapy down the road. He also said that Brychan's vision will start to improve over time. He'll probably always need glasses, but it should get better. We ordered his first pair of glasses on Monday and are waiting rather impatiently to get them. As hard as it is for me to know my little boy has to wear glasses already, I can see now how he's struggling and I want the glasses to make things easier for him. And, as much as it breaks my heart to see his little eye crossing, I'm glad we noticed it. Otherwise we would have NEVER realized he had a problem. Watching him you'd think he has perfect vision. And not noticing until it was too late could have led to blindness in his right eye.

I can't figure out why this is so hard. David and I both knew that our children would eventually end up with glasses. All family members on both sides (with the exception of Grandma Davis) wear glasses. We just never imagined it would start so early. And after all, it's just glasses...not anything life threatening or altering. It could be 500 times worse. People wear glasses all the time! So this shouldn't be so hard, right? It is getting easier, but it is still hard. I'm sure this is just one of many bumps in the road that we will get to face as parents. We're just getting more experience early on!

Halloween 2009

We had SO much fun this year! We spent all Halloween afternoon and evening at our ward's carnival/chili cook-off/trunk or treat. It's a HUGE deal here with a ton of people and even more fun! Brychan picked his costume out all by himself this year. We happened to walk by some costumes at Costco; he snatched this little elephant and held on for dear life. We tried to talk him out of it or into something else, but he wouldn't hear of it! In fact, once we got home, he slept with his costume for several days before he was willing to let go of it long enough for me to hide it away until Halloween. He was pretty dang cute!

Auntie Ashley decided at the last minute to be me. For a few minutes, David decided to join her...
Comparing bellies
The only thing of the day that Brychan did NOT like...
Fishing for prizes with Daddy
Taking a break with Ashley. Being "pregnant" was quite the learning experience for Ashley...she kept asking me how I did things (keep my belly covered, carry Brychan around, run, get up and down off of the ground, fit at the dinner table, etc.) while being so preggo. I found it quite entertaining! Maybe they should make all teenage girls wear pregnancy bellies for a week and then have their flour sack "babies" afterwords!

More Halloween

After winning a prize from Jack Sparrow's sister
Amazingly enough, he sat perfectly still to get his face painted. He LOVED his pumpkin!

Most adorable little bum ever. Mommy forgot to make a tail for this little elephant!
Checking things out...

The fun of "the day after". He knows exactly what is in his pumpkin...he will tell us candy every time and doesn't hesitate to ask for it. However, he isn't in the least bit interested in eating it; just wants to sort through it. He will spend hours taking all of the loot out, sorting into different piles (suckers here, bagged candies, there, etc...) and then putting it all back into his pumpkin.

Our ward really knows how to celebrate Halloween - we all really did have so much fun and can't wait for more fun next year!!